Poison in Your Mouth - Part 2

Are you a roaring forest fire?! Like the forest fire being started by just a spark, a word spoken can have that same domino effect. One person speaks a harsh word to someone and then that person, in turn, speaks sinfully to someone else and it can continue throughout families, churches, or communities. On the other hand, think of the power there is in a kind word, focusing on what is encouraging to another person. That person will hopefully be influenced to speak a kind word to someone else, and so on. I think we would all choose the latter words if we could. Does this mean that we never tell someone of their sin? No, it is often necessary to speak the truth in love. It takes great wisdom from the Lord to choose appropriate words that will bring godly correction.

The gospel is at the center of the book of James. He says (James 3:2) that one who can control their words is a perfect person. Here is that same word from James 1:4, meaning “complete” and “mature.” As Christians, our goal is to be mature in Christ, and by trusting in the Lord, He is bringing that growth to our lives. It might not be, in our estimation fast enough, but God is faithful and is continually at work. We will not be sinless in this life, but it points us to the One, Jesus Christ, who didn’t sin with His tongue. He always said what was necessary for the right moment. We need our Savior’s help continually. He has given us the Holy Spirit as our teacher and guide. That’s great news!

The words from James 1:19, “So then my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath,” is essential for guarding our tongues. I know times when I haven’t slowed down to think before blurting out something, and I’ve been sorry afterwards. Remember Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” When emotions are high it is an opportune time to slow down, listen and think of soft answers. This can’t be done in our own strength, so James 1:5-6 is important; the Lord promises to give us wisdom if we ask in faith. It might come in the short version of -- “Lord, HELP!” May we bring refreshing springs to a heated discussion instead of more fire.

Is Poison in Your Mouth?

James 3: 1-12 comes right after speaking about genuine faith- “faith without works is dead." The use of our tongue is another evidence of whether we have that genuine faith or not. James doesn’t mince words, especially when writing about the tongue. He says, “The tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell.” He also says, “it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.” This gets our attention!

Speaking ungodly comes out of what’s inside us-"...each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires...when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin..." (James 1:14-15) James gives us a picture of a ship being controlled by its rudder or a horse being led by the bit. The tongue, in the same way, will move the rest of a person. Our words effect our emotions, thoughts, and actions. You’ve probably seen the person who, after speaking harshly, has that hardened look on his face. It can’t be avoided.

Hypocritical words or tone of voice also come from our lips; such as-- one minute we can be yelling at the kids, and the next we can answer the phone so sweetly. Or we go to worship on Sundays, and the next day belittle others. James says a spring cannot produce bitter and fresh water. In the same way, the mature Christian cannot have both cursing and blessing come out of his mouth. "...no man can tame the tongue."

To be continued...