The Pemberley Parlor

First Family Wedding of the Year

2012-02-04T18:46:00.000-08:00

First Dance

Groom with most of the groomsmen - where was his best man?

Siblings

The happy couple!

Scenes of Christmas

2011-12-27T22:37:00.000-08:00

No Christmas is complete without Charlie Brown.
This book is the traditional movie version story with
sound effects, including Linus reciting the
Luke passage of the true meaning of Christmas.

Here's our Christmas tree with lots
of homemade ornaments.
We bought it from the Boy Scouts this year,
at a reasonable price, I must add.

When the children were young I liked to have
them make some kind of ornament or decoration
to hang on the tree every year. We still have quite
a collection. This ornament was painted by one
of the boys 17 years ago when he was 7 years old.

Thanksgiving for 2011

2011-11-16T22:52:00.000-08:00

About a year ago I thought to myself, and probably to the Lord, that everything was so calm in the family - we needed more action. I was thinking we hadn't had a wedding in 3 years or a new grandchild in 2 1/2 years. Weddings and babies were on my mind.

Providentially, not too long after, we found out that a new grandson was on the way. Then low and behold a few months later, on Christmas day, a son became engaged. I was thrilled! I thought this is more like it!!

Ezekiel was born in early summer becoming a book end to his older brother, with the two princesses in between. What joy spending time with the grandchildren - a promise fulfilled to gray-haired ones.

A twist in the mix came with my surgery in late summer - that wasn't exactly my idea of putting some action in the family - but then I'm not the story teller so I can't complain. I'm truly thankful for the Lord's amazing care for me!

Over the summer and into the fall another son jumped the fast moving train to start a whirlwind courtship. It culminated into an engagement in September. Wow! Now that's what I call some excitement!

For the beginning of 2012 we have 2 weddings coming up within a month of each other. Winter family reunions will be enjoyed by all - hopefully the weather will cooperate! We're gaining two new lovely daughters and what a blessing they will be! If this is the start of the new year I'm expectantly looking forward to what else the Lord has in store. As the Author of all authors continues to write our family story, it will to be a page-turner, I'm sure. God has blessed us greatly this past year and I am very thankful.

Caedmon College Class: John Calvin's Institutes of the Christian Religion

2011-11-12T17:27:00.000-08:00

Cor meum tibi offero domine prompte et sincere

"MY HEART I OFFER TO YOU LORD
PROMPTLY AND SINCERELY!”

The background of the man behind the books helped to set the stage for this class. Being a young man, the 26 yr. old Calvin first published his Institutes in 1536. The completed books, five times larger, were published in 1559. The Prefatory Address of the first book was written for King Francis 1 of France - as he addresses him "most glorious King" Calvin writes, " My purpose was solely to transmit certain rudiments by which those who are touched with any zeal for religion might be shaped to true godliness, and I undertook this labor especially for our French countrymen, very many of whom I know to be hungering and thirsting for Christ; but I saw very few who had been duly imbued with even a slight knowledge of him. The book itself witnesses that this was my intention, adapted as it is to a simple and, you may say, elementary form of teaching."

This basic instruction for Christianity is not simply raw theology, as some would think. It is written almost as a devotional guide. The biblical teaching is applicable to life and cuts to the heart. Readers are drawn into the persuasive character of Calvin's writing. He brings out the Bible's clear teaching and allows the mysteries of God to stand. Behind the explanations we see a humble man who was truly sincere about his faith and desired others to know the God who is Creator and has revealed Himself in His son.

When I first thought of studying John Calvin's Institutes I expected his writing to be way over my head. Surprisingly most of it is not. The fact that we are discussing what we read is an added bonus. We have talked about the knowledge of God and answered questions like: What feelings prompt us to see that true wisdom rests in God alone? What is innate in all of us? What is the straightedge to which we must be shaped? May God be known without piety? What does Calvin mean by piety? Can you describe the knowledge of God to which we are called?

Another sample of our class centered on how Calvin sees the close bond between the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, as seen in this quote - "Therefore the Spirit, promised to us, has not the task of inventing new and unheard of revelations or of forging a new kind of doctrine, to lead us away from the received doctrine of the gospel, but of sealing our minds with that very doctrine which is commanded by the gospel" Other topics so far have included: the Trinity, creation, and man's sin.

Calvin's Institutes are widely revered by many because of their straight forward teaching with nearly 7,000 Bible references. John Calvin set out to help his fellow countrymen and in the process has touched countless others across the globe. We are privileged to have a group of students interested in taking up these discussions at Caedmon College.

College Classes Extraordinaire!

2011-10-04T19:17:00.000-07:00

We've been taking classes at Caedmon College this fall. There have been 4 classes offered:

1) John Calvin: Institutes of the Christian Religion, 2) Defending the Lion: Christian Apologetics and Worldview, 3) Latin I, 4)Introduction to Rhetoric

It's amazing how the classes have gone together well. What we're learning in Calvin's Institutes is helpful for Apologetics. What we're learning in Rhetoric is beneficial for Apologetics. The Latin phrases and roots are useful for all the classes. Keeping up with the homework is a challenge, but well worth the time.

The instructors have been excellent! There are more classes planned for the winter & spring terms too. Maybe in years down the road Caedmon will be a thriving college with many eager students. Right now there are about 11 eager students who are enthused to be able to take these classes and participate in the lively discussion.

We'll be writing on here some of the things we've been learning. Deo volente!

More Austen...

2011-09-09T16:30:00.000-07:00

Excerpt of letter from Persuasion:

I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you...I have loved none but you.

Doesn't that make you want to sigh? This is the highlight of the story. Of course much has happened up to this point--now the guy takes a step of faith to communicate with the girl he loves. She could snub him; she could laugh at him; or she just might be swept off her feet by his soul-bearing words. He's not sure, but he goes ahead and initiates hoping she will respond positively.

This takes a lot of guts for a guy to take that risk, but if he doesn't he will never know what she's thinking. God has made the man to initiate and the woman is to respond. It shouldn't be the other way around. Gals have to be patient for a guy to pursue her, and guys need to take up the call to take the lead and not be afraid of rejection. Miss Right, be in prayer for Mr. Right, wherever he may be, that when the time comes he will be strong and courageous to pursue you with his God-given responsibility.

My Mommy had surgery

2011-08-17T16:28:00.000-07:00

And she did awesome! :)

Mom had surgery this past week to remove a tumor, and by God's grace everything went well. We are very thankful to now have her home and she is resting comfortably. Thanks to all who were praying for her!

The Blessing of Grandchildren

2011-06-26T23:07:00.000-07:00

Ezekiel William Sumpter

Born: June 25

The Lord bless you out of Zion, and may you see the good of Jerusalem

all the days of your life. Yes, may you see your children's children.

Psalm 128:5-6

My Response to: The Lost Tools of Learning

2011-06-06T05:15:00.000-07:00

Dorothy Sayers has some thought-provoking statements in her article, “The Lost Tools of Learning.” On the one hand, she readily admits her inexperience in teaching, and on the other, she uses herself as a springboard for her thesis. Even though Sayers is untrained, she has experiences from her own learning in which to draw. She uses the tools that she has been taught in order to reason and formulate her thoughts into words that have something valuable to say. Today students are taught subjects, but the tools of how to think falls short; they lack the ability to put those thoughts on paper or to speak them adequately. Sayers states the fact that even many adults today have an inability to intelligently answer questions using appropriate arguments. Thankfully, she explains the tools that have been lost, so they may be found and used to help adults learn again, in order to guide future generations.

It has been said that the study of history gives us guidance for the present. Wisely, Sayers takes us back to a time when she feels they knew how to teach students more efficiently. She argues that the Middle Ages got it right as they applied a certain process of learning. Their method of education was named the Trivium and it was divided into three parts: Grammar, Dialectic, and Rhetoric. Sayers says that we need not do everything exactly as they did in the Middle Ages. Nevertheless, by using their ideas, as a foundation and with certain modifications, it can be just as beneficial, or an even better education for the present.

The Trivium begins with the Grammar stage. If Grammar is begun when the child is young, his mind is quick and can hold an abundant amount of information. The thought is—why not use this innate talent and apply it to his education? They can memorize Latin vocabulary at a rapid rate; Literature can be listened to and recited; History facts, such as important names and dates, are remembered; Geography maps are studied, memorizing capitals, and natural features; in Science the students learn and memorize important aspects of God’s creation like animals and stars; in Mathematics the facts tables are learned and easily recalled; in Theology the children soak up the Scriptures by memorizing verses, reciting the stories, the Lord’s Prayer or repeating the order of the Bible books. These are just some of the important things taught in the Grammar stage. The child at this point is called the “Poll-Parrot” which is appropriate due to their natural ability to imitate. The facts they are learning at this stage are laying the groundwork for the next stage.

There is not a precise time when the Dialetic, also called Logic, Stage begins for a student. Sayers says it is when he “shows himself disposed to pertness and interminable argument.” His thought development begins to show itself as he begins to use his words to express himself. In Language studies, vocabulary is increased, the history of language is studied and learning of proper speech applied; Reading and Writing is increased; as for Mathematics, Algebra and Geometry are introduced and applied; in History, the student is guided into more groundwork for Theological discussion and preparation for debate. Geography and Science also continue in like manner, picking up where the Grammar stage left off; using previously learned information or new, the student speaks or writes to show comprehension about the subject. At this stage a student is encouraged to go find out information; by gathering from suitable books and other resources, he decides what is useful for a particular subject. Like the “Poll Parrot” there is a suitable name for the student of this stage — it is “the Pert.” He likes to contradict, talk back, and trip up his parents or instructors, which keeps everyone on their toes.

The third stage, Rhetoric, begins when the student is looking for more knowledge to challenge himself. The many facts he has learned as a younger student now make sense to him and he can put this information in the right contexts. He is embarking on some exciting discoveries! The name given at this stage is “Poetic.” Since the student has been trained well enough, he can focus on particular areas of interest. At this time subjects noticeably begin to overlap and are not so easily distinguished. This raises uneasiness. Students are not sure how the diverse topics cohere and inter-relate. However, with a teacher’s guidance, along with creativity and independent thinking on the student’s part, the synthesis of knowledge begins to take shape.

Sayers promotes restoring a public presentation and defense of the Thesis at the culmination of this stage. This undoubtedly tests the spadework that has been accomplished with this student, hopefully making him confident by using the tools that he has been taught. At this point having gone through the Trivium, Sayers proposes, the student is so sufficiently prepared that he could go right into university classes with no problem, even if he is considered too young.

The Trivium, as Sayers so strongly believes, provides an excellent education, if carried out correctly. I agree with her, that this approach to learning gives the proper tools for studying, reasoning, writing, and influencing the society for righteousness. As a Christian parent, laboring to raise my children for the Lord, I need to make wise decisions for my children’s education, so that they, in whatever vocation they choose, can clearly communicate the Gospel message to the world. Christian day-schools and homeschools have plenty to gain by structuring their curriculum around the Trivium. With this in mind, Dorothy Sayers’ article gives convincing arguments for any parent or teacher to achieve that purpose. It makes great sense—may such tools be recovered and used!

An Encouragement to Spring

2011-04-06T22:15:00.000-07:00

May the flowers bloom

May the rain drops cease

and May the sandals come out! :)

♫ "How Deep The Fathers Love For Us" - Phillips, Craig, & Dean ♫

2011-02-14T11:44:00.000-08:00

Written by Stuart Townend: here's the story behind the hymn--

http://www.stuarttownend.co.uk/songs/storybehindthesongs/howdeepthefatherslove

Newest grandson/nephew

2011-02-04T13:51:00.001-08:00

Profile resembles his big brother--
praise the Lord he looks healthy!

Gluten Free Brownies

2011-02-01T22:34:00.000-08:00

At first I thought yuk! Beans in a dessert? No way! Then I read the responses of those who had tried this recipe and all was positive and that got my curiosity up. So the best way to find out for myself was to try it out. Since I can't have dairy I used the coconut oil instead of butter & instead of sugar I used the honey and I added nuts. I'm sure the choc. chips would be yummy too but most have milk in them. These are fudge-like and delicious! You should do an experiment on your family and see what they think. I bet they won't be able to guess the secret ingredient! (Got the recipe from here )

2 cups black beans (or 1 can of no salt added, rinsed and drained)
3 lightly beaten eggs
1/3 cup melted coconut oil (or melted butter)
1/4 cup cocoa powder (I like the dark powder)
1/8 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 cup honey (or other equivalent sweetener) (next time I want to try palm sugar!)
1/2 cup chopped up bittersweet chocolate (or semi-sweet chips if you don’t mind the added refined sugar in them)
1/3 cup finely chopped walnuts -optional

Making these could NOT be simpler. Preheat oven to 350°. Grease an 8×8 pan. Toss all but the final 2 ingredients (the chopped up chocolate and walnuts) into a blender or food processor and blend until smooth. Fold in the chopped chocolate and walnuts. Pour into the pan and bake for about 30 minutes.

What Are Your 2011 Goals?

2011-01-04T11:10:00.001-08:00

Maybe you have a goal in 2011 to get more exercise, but what is your number 1 goal for this year? Is it the same as Paul's in Philippians 1:21?

For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.

How is this accomplished? I was inspired to write a few thoughts after hearing my husband's message this past week.

As Christians, we should have the goal to live for Christ, and we are not alone as individuals in this endeavor. God has placed us in a family of believers called the Church. He expects us to gather with one another on a regular basis. (Hebrews 10: 24-25) By faith, Christ is at the center of our gatherings.

What does Jesus' church look like? She worships and glorifies God and enjoys Him forever. She builds the Kingdom of God. Thankfully Christ's gates are strong enough to withstand the darts of the enemy. Jesus said, ... I will build My church and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it. Worship is the offense against the gates of Hades. The enemy can only be silent as we give our worship to God.

As we enter into worship we are brought into a heavenly company of angels and to the assembly of the firstborn in heaven and the just men made perfect. (Hebrews 12:22) We have been transformed, as those who have gone before us, from the worship of idols to the worship of God through the Lord Jesus Christ, by the power of the Holy Spirit. It is a time of rejoicing in all the Lord has done for us. We have to put aside all the sins that entangle us and look to the One who has redeemed us. By faith we are lifted up into the the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem. Hebrews 12:22-23

When we gather together each week and are brought into the worship of God with the heavenly hosts, it's as if we get to go to heaven. Who would want to miss out on heaven? We are a part of the Kingdom of God now and Christ is the King. It is not something we have to wait for later - it is happening now! We must look with anticipation to entering into the joy of going to heaven each Sunday! It should be the highlight of our week - the beginning of a new week to serve the Lord.

Our Sunday worship connects us to the rest of our week where we live out the goal of living for Christ. We continue in that Sunday dialog with God as we work, sing, pray, read the Bible, and serve others. It continues in a cycle as we again look forward to gathering with God's people and dialog once more - God speaks His Word (He initiates - He calls us) and we respond in faith with recitations, singing, giving, listening, and prayer- it's our work. Someday our worship will be made perfect when Christ returns- we must be ready and practised up for that glorious day!

May God be glorified as we enter into heaven each Lord's Day in 2011, and may that worship carry us through living for Him each week and into eternity!

Christmas Tradition

2010-12-15T12:09:00.000-08:00

I was told to post something, so here is what I've come up with. ;)

My family has a tradition about Christmas trees. I don't know who's idea it was, but it has been carried out pretty regularly every Christmas. We don't get a Christmas tree till the week of Christmas. In some ways it's nice: Cheaper tree, more anticipation, less pine needles. One downfall is when we get asked about it. "So how is your Christmas tree?" "Um, I'm sure it's nice, sitting in the lot where we are going to buy it from."

This year I tried to break the tradition. I really did. "Hey, Mom that looks like a good Christmas tree!" "Oh, yeah." Well, it's December 15 and we still do not have a tree. It's looking like the tradition will hold. That's okay though. Every family has a tradition and that's ours.

Isaiah 55:12
"You will go out in joy
and be led forth in peace;
the mountains and hills
will burst into song before you,
and all the trees of the field
will clap their hands."

Happy Birthday milestones!

2010-12-01T12:24:00.000-08:00

Last month my oldest son turned 30 and today my youngest is turning 18. These two sons have been a blessing to the family in many ways and I'm truly thankful for them!

It makes me think how much, as a mother, I have learned from all my children through the years. They have challenged me to see my own sins. I have been driven to seek the Lord. He is the merciful Savior, the One who forgives! Am I a mother who is merciful and forgives too? They have shown me what it is like to be a child of the King. Do I depend on Him for everything, as a child depends on his parents? Do I show I am a dependent mother, that I can do nothing without the wisdom and direction from the Lord? Their curiosity has driven me to find things out, to look it up, and dig into the truth of a matter. Am I diligent to keep studying God's world & His Word to know Him more deeply?

This is the constant journey we are all on. Become like a child. Be thankful that the Lord works through the little ones and the big ones to bring you to Himself in a deeper way.

Happy Birthday, Toby & Jeremy!

National Bible Bee Competition

2010-11-12T10:16:00.000-08:00

This is it - the moment we've been waiting for! Early this morning 300 contestants (ages 7-18) from around the USA began to regurgitate all they have been committing to memory the last 5 1/2 months. They began by taking a 200 question written Bible test in 1 hour. Following the test, they will recite up to 30 Scripture passages in 10 minutes. From there some will go on to the semi-finals and then on to the finals.

These young people have given loads of time to prepare themselves. One such example is a 12 yr old young lady who, for the last month, spent up to 3 hours a day reviewing the 500 verses she memorized. Also every Sunday her church family gave an opportunity for her to recite in front of the congregation. Thank the Lord for her diligence and her parents as they have prayed for her, quizzed her, and encouraged her along the way. They will never be the same after all this is over.

To go to the National Bible Bee is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for the 300+ families. It's like an intensive conference around God's Word and you can never go wrong with that. Can you imagine hearing God speaking all day long?! We ought to pray for the lasting effects of the Scriptures in the hearts and minds of those attending. May those of us who are watching, cheering, and praying be motivated to hide God's Word in our hearts too.

Go here for the live web cast, to see the contestants, and hear the results.

Christians, take heart...

2010-11-02T09:14:00.000-07:00

God's ultimate purpose for Christians is not to bring them out of this world and into heaven but to use them to bring heaven into this world. As we hallow God's name and do God's will in how we think, feel, and act- even when it means being unfashionable- the power of Christ's resurrection flows through us, and as a result we bring heaven's culture to earth; we give people a fortaste of what's to come. In this manner we continue the work Christ began and will one day complete.
~pg. 61, Unfashionable, by Tullian Tchividjian~

This can only be accomplished through humbling ourselves before the mighty God and receiving His strength, through the power of the Holy Spirit, to do His will.

God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble...Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up. ~James 4: 6-10

...I shall send to you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, He will testify of Me. ~John 15: 26

...He has given us of His Spirit...Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him and he in God.~1 John 4: 12- 15

Ephesians 6:1-7 in Pictures

2010-10-21T21:19:00.000-07:00

Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right.
Honor thy father and mother; which is the first
commandment with promise.

That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live
long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Servants, be obedient to them...

...that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ; not with eye service, as menpleasers; as the servants...

...of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart; with good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men;

Passionate About Puppets

2010-10-09T21:16:00.000-07:00

This is "Sparky" that I made for an Awana group.

This is Sparky's cousin, "Sparks."

This little girl is "Melody." She taught her grandpa what Christmas was all about, among other stories.

These are 3 of my 5 frogs hopping on their lily pads.They were made from frog puppets that had only heads and croaker noise makers in their mouths. I took out the croakers, made the mouths bigger, and added bodies. I wanted to have a tongue shoot out of their mouths to get bugs, but I couldn't figure out how to do it.

These guys are my first black light people puppets.

This chubby guy was one of my favorites, but I sold him to someone.

This puppet, being one of the oldest, has been many characters;

one time he was "Christian" in Pilgrim's Progress.

Why go to Church?

2010-09-22T16:24:00.000-07:00

I've heard it a lot: "No, our family does home church." "Sorry, Sunday is my day to sleep in." "I work on Sundays, too bad." Whatever the reason, I've gotten to know some people who don't go to church consistently. (That is the key word. These people may go to church two or three times a year, but that's all.)

It's been a different experience, growing up with families who are consistent Church-goers. Whenever I think of this, I always come to the why. Why are these people not choosing to fellowship with God's people? Now, don't mistake me, these people may be Christians and I believe they probably are (however, that's not for me to say). The more important question is why some would think it right to deprive themselves of such a good gift from God. They all have various reasons: Church is hypocritical, can't find one that I like, I had a bad experience, my relationship with Christ is more important.

The sad thing is, this all starts with the Church. Is she accurately representing who Christ is? That's her job, after all. So, in some ways, it is her fault for not acting like the bride of Christ. But, I would also add, that those who are not attending Church, are not off the hook. Why would you want to "date the church" instead of making a commitment to her (as Josh Harris would say in his book: Stop Dating the Church: Falling in love with the family of God.) and sticking with her in the hard times and the good times.

Going to Church is not only important for your spiritual growth, but also for the edification of others at your Church. You will bring something new, challenging, and encouraging to your fellow believers. That is what the Church is all about! More importantly, why would you not want to spend time with your God? You say you're a christian? Good!

"But someone will say, 'You have faith, and I have works.' Show me your faith without your works, and I will show you my faith by my works." - James 2:18

Going to church is not about you and what you want, its about following and trusting God in all things.

Happy Birthday Mommy!

2010-09-15T13:11:00.001-07:00

You are the best Mommy ever! :) I hope you have a fun day and that you have the best birthday! Love ya!

Happy Birthday, Molly darling!

2010-09-12T00:39:00.000-07:00

It's hard to believe my daughter is no longer a teenager! She is a beautiful young woman inside and out and a blessing to our family! I'm thankful to the Lord for giving her to us 20 years ago. Molly, may you continue to serve our Lord and Savior with all the time that you are given to live on this earth. Keep smiling too!

Cleaning out the bedroom...remembering...

2010-08-21T06:25:00.001-07:00

There's a feeling of accomplishment when you can actually get your bedroom organized. Having 2 new bookcases (his & hers- guess which is bigger?!), I've been able to clear off the night stands and move books from our office/school room to the shelves. It's great to have a place to put things (books and more books)!

When cleaning out I stumbled across a box of old photos. Here's one of my favorites. It's my dad in his younger years. I remember when I was little he would play a small accordion that we had. I would watch in amazement how he could pull it out and push it in, all the while coordinating the fingers on either side! My dad was quite talented! I don't know whatever happen to that accordion, but years later Dad bought himself an organ and once again amazed me, this time with his feet moving and coordinated fingers playing on different levels. It was a strenuous workout for that middle-aged man, as he filled the home with strands of "Tie a Yellow Ribbon Round the Old Oak Tree" bringing joy to his family!

Will You Have This Dance, Anyone?!

2010-07-23T10:25:00.000-07:00

Alright, all you Austen lovers, here's a new quote from Emma, Chapter 29:

It may be possible to do without dancing entirely. Instances have been known of young people passing many, many months successively without being at any ball of any description, and no material injury accrue either to body or mind; but when a beginning is made-- when the felicities of rapid motion have once been, thought lightly, felt-- it must be a very heavy set that does not ask for more.

Dancing is for old people too; it keeps them young! When we had our Resurrection Ball at a retirement home, it was a joy to see the residents sitting around the dance hall where families were taking part in the dance. I spoke with several elderly asking if they would like to dance, and they said no because they were participating while watching. Many reminisced about their younger days doing the swing or foxtrot. They seemed surprised that even the 6 yr olds (or younger) were getting into it. It gave them a few hours of reliving a happy time.

I enjoy watching couples that know how to dance well. They move together with fluid movements and unity, which amazes me. Knowing what the other is doing, they move simultaneously as one. The beat of the music drives them on. I have to be careful not to stare with my mouth open in awe! The Jane Austen books bring us back to that recreation and entertainment enjoyed for centuries; surely not only young people like a dance, but all ages enjoy the felicities of rapid motion!

I'm looking forward to the next ball and trying again some basic steps, hoping not to step on my husband's feet!

What is Your Faith In?

2010-06-14T18:54:00.000-07:00

I've often heard comments like: "my faith helped me," "if you just have a little faith," or "faith will get you through." What do these phrases mean to the people saying them? My guess is that this kind of "faith" is a positive attitude that you can do whatever task is before you. Like The Little Train That Could was trying to get over the mountain saying, "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can," you just might have the strength to get through your difficulty.

Most would agree that faith is believing in something you can't see---that seems unattainable, but faith is more than that. What is your faith in? If you believe you can do something like the Little Train, you are putting your faith in yourself and that is an enormous responsibility to carry. What happens when you mess up or when you are so weak you can't keep going? What happens to your faith then? Someone might say, "at that point I have to rely on my family and friends to pull me through." Certainly family and friends can give love and support; however, some time they will be weak also, what then? Maybe you can still "make a wish" that something good will happen, but who are you wishing to? A star? A birthday candle? Faith in self falls short and faith in others or things such as stars or birthday candles cannot assist you. All are finite.

Someone I know said---Faith is not stirring up something in ourselves; it's knowing that God is faithful.

This kind of faith is directed toward the infinite God of the universe who knows all things and gives lasting help. He is the faithful One who will never grow weary. He is always present and delights in those who put their trust in Him. His very Word, gives guidance in all situations.We might not always want to do what it says, but if we know the One who has said it we can't argue. He is the heavenly Father who specially cares for His children.

Oh taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him! Oh, fear the Lord, you His saints! There is no want to those who fear Him. The young lions lack and suffer hunger; but those who seek the Lord shall not lack any good thing. Psalm 34:8-10

This is our God who loves to bless those who put their faith in Him!

So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God. Romans 10:17

Faith isn't the ability to believe long and far into the misty future. It's simply taking God at His Word and taking the next step. -Joni Erickson Tada

The Joys of Modern Technology

2010-05-13T23:46:00.000-07:00

Go here to see the sweetest grandchildren in the world (their dad & mom aren't too bad either):

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REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN FOR GRANTS PASS BIBLE BEE!

2010-05-07T16:26:00.000-07:00

Register today for the National Bible Bee!

If you live in the Southern Oregon/Northern California/Grants Pass area come join us! See our site here.

If you'd like to find out more information, sign-up, or find a local Bible Bee closer to you go here.

What is the Bible Bee? The National Bible Bee Competition is a series of events designed to help parents encourage diligence in Bible study, Scripture memorization, and prayer in their families. There are two focal points: 1) Bible memorization and Bible knowledge competition held at Local Bible Bees; these are organized by volunteer Hosts and Local Event Teams in various locations throughout the United States, and 2) The National Bible Bee competition for the 300 top-scoring contestants from the Local Bible Bees. Family discipleship is reinforced during the time leading up to these events through planned voluntary social interactions that focus on the Word, memory verse games, and Christian fellowship.

Where are the Bible Bee Contests held? Local Bible Bees will be held in churches, schools, universities, and community centers across the United States on Saturday, August 28th, 2010. The National Bible Bee Contest will take place at the Renaissance Hotel and Conference Center in Schaumburg, Illinois, just outside of Chicago, on November 11-13, 2010.

Who can participate in the Bible Bee?
Families may begin to register their children and youth who will be 7 to 18 years of age on or before November 13, 2010. Contestants will compete in one of three age divisions: Primary (ages 7-10), Junior (11-14) or Senior (15-18).

Why participate in the Bible Bee? The Bible Bee is a summer catalyst for families to establish a life-long pattern of discipleship through in-depth study of the Word of God, Scripture memorization, and prayer. All the events, including the Local Bee, are designed to be enjoyable, family-style get-togethers to encourage, recognize, and reward diligence in Bible study, memorization, and prayer. The blessings of drawing close to God and to one another are without limit. You will likely meet many like-minded families and have tons of fun along the way!

What are the rewards for being in the Bible Bee? The greatest reward is your family drawing closer to the Lord and closer to one another as you study God’s word together, memorize Scripture and pray together. Local Event Teams may choose to arrange awards and/or prize money for their Local Bible Bee winners. The top National Bible Bee winners are awarded from $5,000 up to $100,000 according to their Final Challenge Round rank and age division.

2010-04-20T19:05:00.000-07:00

I was surprised to see they've turned Little House into a musical. I'm sorry to see that it isn't playing near here! World magazine warns: Fans of the Little House books and TV series will see some big differences in the prairie life set to music. Even though the characters are portrayed differently, the show is supposedly continuing in the Little House tradition of being family centered. From the website it sounds like a fun evening for the whole family!

God's Love Shown

2010-04-10T09:17:00.000-07:00

Here is a vivid picture of God's love. Pastor Toby Sumpter walks us through history. We are admonished to remember how often we have refused God's love, and still our heavenly Father has never given up loving us---to the very end. This is worth 15 minutes of your time.

My Song is Love Unknown: A Good Friday Homily-- http://www.canonpress.org/shop/custom.asp?recid=26

He will complete it

2010-03-23T11:45:00.000-07:00

If we indulge in any confidence which is not grounded on the Rock of ages, our confidence is worse than a dream, it will fall upon u, and cover us with its ruins, to our sorrow and confusion. All that Nature spins time will unravel, to the eternal confusion of all who are clothed therein. The Psalmist was wise, he rested upon nothing short of the Lord's work. It is the Lord who has begun the good work within us; it is He who has carried it on; and if He does not finish it, it never will be complete. If there be one stitch in the celestial garment of our righteousness which we are to insert ourselves, then we are lost; but this is our confidence, the Lord who began will perfect. He has done it all, must do it all, and will do it all. Our confidence must not be in what we have done, nor in what we have resolved to do, but entirely in what the Lord will do.

-Charles Spurgeon

Moods, the Weather, and Easter

2010-03-18T12:09:00.000-07:00

Have you ever noticed how the weather and the moods of people are related. I know for myself it's true. I just feel more down and sad when it is dark and raining out. Now when the sunshine comes out, that all changes! I become very happy! I will be the first one out the door to enjoy that sunshine. I've noticed that I'm not the only one too. Lately, with there being nicer weather, more people are out and people just seem more pleasant. Our moods are funny things. They can be so driven by our circumstances. Sometimes that is a good thing and sometimes not, but it's true. Do you remember what the Bible says about the night of good Friday?

Now it was about the sixth hour, and there was darkness over all the earth until the ninth hour. Then the sun was darkened , and the veil of the temple was torn in two.

Luke 23:44-45.

Wow, the day on which Christ died, was covered in darkness. I believe this was a picture of the agony God went through watching His son die. It showed the wrath God being poured out. That darkness, that blackness, was because of my sin and all the sins committed by mankind. This was not a happy day, it was a dark day, a horrible day. The good news is that the sun shone even more brightly on that easter morning! Christ suffered for our sins, but then rose victorious that morning.

Now in some ways it might seem like a small detail. What's the big deal? God is interested in the smallest details of everything. So, there was darkness, but then there was light and the first resurrection day dawned.

Resurrection Ball

2010-03-09T09:14:00.000-08:00

When: Friday, April 9, 2010, 7:00-9:00 P.M.

Dessert Reception, 9:15-11:00 P.M.*

Where: Spring Village Retirement Living

Community, 1420 Redwood Circle, Grants Pass.

What: Dancing, table refreshments, singing and joy.

Who: You, your dancing partner, your children, parents,

family, friends and neighbors.

Attire: Semi-formal to formal—this is a celebration of the

Resurrection. Look sharp and elegant.

Cost: $7 per household at door, this covers rental services.

Please R.S.V.P. by April 7^th, 471-1414 or email:

mpsumpter@gmail.com

(Mark and Peggy Sumpter)

*Dessert Reception: At around 9:00 P.M., we'll make

our way over to the Taprock Event Center,

Maple Room, 755 South East 7^th Street, Grants Pass.

Important Note: A donation will be taken on behalf of the Pregnancy Care

Center of Grants Pass, please make checks payable directly

to Pregnancy Care Center of Grants Pass, and on the cost of $7

for the Ball, make checks payable to Peggy Sumpter.

Yes, It's time to do some dancing! Hope you can be there!

Teaching With Pictures

2010-02-23T19:43:00.000-08:00

Pictures are excellent teaching and memory devises. It doesn't take many words to get a point across, if you have adequate stick figures or symbols. Certainly you don't have to be an artist. I remember drawing on the back of the worship bulletin to illustrate for my children the sermon. It definitely kept me listening, and hopefully it helped them too.

In Classical Conversations we are memorizing together Exodus 20. Today it was: "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's house" I drew on the white board a guy next to his house looking and pointing over at his neighbor's house and thinking- "I'd like to have that house." Each time we said the verse I wiped off a word or picture. It's a great way to learn a large passage. Young children, as well as some adults such as myself, tend to be more visual and will benefit from the use of simple artwork. It will also remain in the mind for future reference.

My husband was explaining something to a child in the above pictures. See if you can figure out what he's saying.

Pictures

2010-01-21T12:09:00.000-08:00

Anyone who would like to see Christmas or New Years pictures of our family and what we did can go Here to see it all. Enjoy!

Christmas Joys

2009-12-23T15:47:00.001-08:00

Christmas lights, sweets, greenery, singing,

candles, cookies, ornaments, bells ringing.

Gifts that are given and received too,

some re-gifting or buying them new.
Wrapping paper spread over the floor,
bows, ribbons, tape, name tags galore.
Being with friends and family each year,
sharing with one another Christmas cheer.
Remember the center of our celebration--
Christ Jesus coming for our salvation.

Merry Christmas!

Poison in Your Mouth - Part 2

2009-12-05T09:16:00.001-08:00

Are you a roaring forest fire?! Like the forest fire being started by just a spark, a word spoken can have that same domino effect. One person speaks a harsh word to someone and then that person, in turn, speaks sinfully to someone else and it can continue throughout families, churches, or communities. On the other hand, think of the power there is in a kind word, focusing on what is encouraging to another person. That person will hopefully be influenced to speak a kind word to someone else, and so on. I think we would all choose the latter words if we could. Does this mean that we never tell someone of their sin? No, it is often necessary to speak the truth in love. It takes great wisdom from the Lord to choose appropriate words that will bring godly correction.

The gospel is at the center of the book of James. He says (James 3:2) that one who can control their words is a perfect person. Here is that same word from James 1:4, meaning “complete” and “mature.” As Christians, our goal is to be mature in Christ, and by trusting in the Lord, He is bringing that growth to our lives. It might not be, in our estimation fast enough, but God is faithful and is continually at work. We will not be sinless in this life, but it points us to the One, Jesus Christ, who didn’t sin with His tongue. He always said what was necessary for the right moment. We need our Savior’s help continually. He has given us the Holy Spirit as our teacher and guide. That’s great news!

The words from James 1:19, “So then my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath,” is essential for guarding our tongues. I know times when I haven’t slowed down to think before blurting out something, and I’ve been sorry afterwards. Remember Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” When emotions are high it is an opportune time to slow down, listen and think of soft answers. This can’t be done in our own strength, so James 1:5-6 is important; the Lord promises to give us wisdom if we ask in faith. It might come in the short version of -- “Lord, HELP!” May we bring refreshing springs to a heated discussion instead of more fire.

Is Poison in Your Mouth?

2009-11-14T22:58:00.000-08:00

James 3: 1-12 comes right after speaking about genuine faith- “faith without works is dead." The use of our tongue is another evidence of whether we have that genuine faith or not. James doesn’t mince words, especially when writing about the tongue. He says, “The tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire by hell.” He also says, “it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.” This gets our attention!

Speaking ungodly comes out of what’s inside us-"...each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires...when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin..." (James 1:14-15) James gives us a picture of a ship being controlled by its rudder or a horse being led by the bit. The tongue, in the same way, will move the rest of a person. Our words effect our emotions, thoughts, and actions. You’ve probably seen the person who, after speaking harshly, has that hardened look on his face. It can’t be avoided.

Hypocritical words or tone of voice also come from our lips; such as-- one minute we can be yelling at the kids, and the next we can answer the phone so sweetly. Or we go to worship on Sundays, and the next day belittle others. James says a spring cannot produce bitter and fresh water. In the same way, the mature Christian cannot have both cursing and blessing come out of his mouth. "...no man can tame the tongue."

To be continued...

Bible Bee

2009-11-09T23:13:00.000-08:00

How much Scripture do you know by heart? 2 verses? 20 verses? I can definitely now say that I don't have very much scripture memorized. Last Friday Mom turned on the first national Bible Bee (we listened online at their website). It was amazing to just sit and listen to all of these kids rattle off 20 verse passages.

It most certainly was an encouragement and fun to hear how much kids are capable of memorizing. I say kids, but the oldest were around my age or a year younger. Praise God for youth who are now encouraged to memorize scripture and keep it hidden in their heart!

Happy Reformation!

2009-10-31T23:12:00.000-07:00

A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing;
our helper He amid the flood of mortal ills prevailing.
For still our ancient foe doth seek to work us woe;
his craft and pow'r are great; and armed with cruel hate,
on earth is not his equal.

Did we in our own strength confide, our striving would be losing;
were not the right man on our side, the man of God's own choosing.
Dost ask who that may be? Christ Jesus, it is he,
Lord Sabaoth his name, from age to age the same,
and he must win the battle.

And though this world, with devils filled, should threaten to undo us,
we will not fear for God hath willed his truth to triumph through us.
The prince of darkness grim, we tremble not for him;
his rage we can endure, for low his doom is sure;
one little word shall fell him.

That Word above all earthly pow'rs, no thanks to them, abideth;
the Spirit and the gifts are ours through him who with us sideth.
Let goods and kindred go, this mortal life also;
the body they may kill: God's truth abideth still;
his kingdom is forever.

Blessings

2009-10-13T13:09:00.001-07:00

I was thinking the other day about blessings and how it is so easy to take them for granted. I automatically assume that I will go to work today. I presume to know that tomorrow will hold what I've planned. Too often I don't give credit to our awesome God for these special every day blessings that He showers down on us. The only reason I am able to go to the store like I planned is because God has blessed me in that area. This applies to other areas as well. We can take our family for granted as well. It can be pretty easy to just go everyday without thanking God for the family He put us in.

Those are just some simple everyday examples of blessings. Often those are hard. The big long term blessings are a little easier to spot. Blessings such as being able to go on a missionary trip, being blessing with children, or completing a college degree are easier to see. This doesn't mean we can overlook them though. We are a month and a half away from Thanksgiving. Do you stop and count your blessings more than just on that holiday? Do you ever think about how much God has blessed you with? I know I don't always. Lets remember to stop in the midst of all our business and thank God for all that He has given to us as His children.

James

2009-09-25T12:38:00.000-07:00

"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;"

I just finished reading through James and providentially my Mother is beginning to study this book in her women's Bible study. So, I think it would be good to put a few thoughts down about this book.

One thing that struck me when reading the passage above is how often I don't ask and when I do it's not in faith but with the thought that "this way I will get what I want" and that is not the correct attitude to have! We should be prayerfully crying out to God in faith knowing that He knows all our needs and will provide for us. He will also tell us no when we don't need what we are asking for. That is what I have struggles with before. I ask because of course this is something that I need! Well, we need to remember that God knows best and He will be the judge of what I need.

James is a wonderful book and can be a great help to us all!

Brush Up On Your English Grammar!

2009-09-16T20:44:00.000-07:00

Since it's that time of the year when schools are starting up again, I thought I'd mention a helpful book. It will take you back to the basics of identifying the parts of speech, sentence structure, and diagramming sentences. Now if you made a face after reading that dreaded word "diagramming" then this book is for you. Mrs. Wilson shows how easy it is to diagram, as each new part of speech is taught. She says, "Diagramming sentences is a good exercise because it forces the student to analyze every word in the sentence by examining the function of each word." I think of diagramming sentences like taking a puzzle apart and grouping the pieces, by color or shape, so you can see where the pieces go and how they fit together. Our Mother Tongue will certainly give you the tools to know our unique language better and use it correctly.

Happy Birthday again!

2009-09-16T17:59:00.000-07:00

This time to my wonderful Mom! Yesterday was her birthday and she was actually busy most of the day so we didn't do too much of a party. You are a great blessing to all of us kids Mom. We love you!

Happy Birthday!

2009-09-12T09:01:00.000-07:00

To my daughter: You are a blessing from the Lord! Nineteen years ago when the doctor said, "It's a girl!" I said, "It's Molly!" You will always be our lovely girl. Your dad and I overflow with thanksgiving to God for you!

2009-09-03T19:32:00.000-07:00

Little sisters, little sisters all in brown; smile for the camera and don't fall down!

Little girls, little girls pretty as can be; grow in lovely gracefulness and bless your family!

Oma & Opa like this one too!

Aunt Molly is taking a trip to Idaho next week. I'm sure she will be taking more pictures of our favorite little ones!

Good Quotes

2009-08-14T14:44:00.000-07:00

I found these in the Oke Family Cookbook. I thought they were pretty good! Enjoy!

Eating slowly helps to keep one slim: in other words, haste makes waist.
A. H. Hallock

When pleasures to the eye and palate meet, the cook has rendered his great work complete. William King

Doing little things with a strong desire to please God makes them really great.
St. Francis De Sales

Who Likes a Mystery?!!

2009-08-08T08:28:00.000-07:00

If you've read the Mandy books and liked them you'll think this is a pretty cool story. For those of you who don't know about the Mandy books, I'll just say that Mandy loves to solve mysteries. Surprisingly, our mystery actually didn't take too long to solve, but it's a good one!

This past Tuesday my husband noticed there was a dent in the side of our Cadillac and he wondered what had happened. On Wednesday morning he mentioned it to me and we went outside to take a look at this unexplained oddity. Upon careful observation my husband said, "Notice this on top of the hood. It looks like blood." We both looked at it and confirmed it did indeed look like blood. That definitely sparked our curiosity. We started trying to figure out what could have hit the side of our car and splatter blood like that. "Was it a biker or a skater who slammed into the car as it was parked on the road on Monday night? Wow! They must have hit pretty hard to bleed like that!" It didn't really make sense, so I think we both went into the house thinking that we probably would never know the mystery of the dent.

That night I began to read our local newspaper. On the front page an article intrigued me. It was entitled "Dog attacks doe near downtown Grants Pass" I began to read that a "100 pound Pit Bull chased and caught a panicked doe near downtown." I kept reading, "The attacking dog ran through traffic in pursuit of its prey. The doe in its panic hit and damaged a parked car before bounding into the rack of a passing pickup truck." All of a sudden the words parked car stared back at me and a question mark lit up over my head! I then looked at the day it happened which was Monday afternoon. As my husband sat on the couch nearby I explained the story to him and asked, "Could this be the answer to our mystery?" Next, I yelled to the other room, "Hey Molly! Did you drive the Cadillac on Monday to work?!" She confirmed that she had driven to work, which is downtown and had parked on 4th & J. As my husband and I talked it all seemed to make sense that the deer might have been the culprit who made the dent in our Cadillac.

Well, to be quite sure, we decided to call the newspaper to help clarify the details. Sparked into activity by this question, my husband, detective extraordinaire, talked with newspaper reporter Shaun and first asked exactly where in Grants Pass was the car. After explaining it was in the vicinity of 4th & J St, Shaun seemed curious as to why my husband was calling. My husband then explained that he thought the car, hit by the deer, was our Cadillac, which was parked near our daughter' work. One of the first things the reporter asked was, "So did your daughter come home and say, 'a deer hit our car in downtown Grants Pass!' And you thought, 'Right, that's a good story!'" Ha! Ha! Actually Molly hadn't even noticed the dent! :) So, to end this mystery, the police report did say that the parked car was a Cadillac. Amazing! Who would have thought?!

I guess you might be wondering why we didn't first wonder how much it would be to fix the damage. Well, the car is on its way out to the car graveyard so that is why it didn't come into our minds. You might also be wondering what happened to the poor scared doe. The story went on to say that the dog got a hold of it, but passers-by scared off the dog and the doe ran off with its two fawns following it. I assume the deer probably went off to die. A sad ending for that side of the story, but a mystery satisfactorily ended for the Sumpters.

This is our "Gray Ghost" as my in-laws call it. You can see the mysterious dent! The blood has already been washed off.

Beautiful Oregon!

2009-07-27T18:52:00.000-07:00

We had the privilege of going to Diamond Lake for a church family camping trip. The temperature was pleasant, the mosquitoes were moderate and the company was outstanding! Here are two spectacular views from the lake.

Mt Mazama

Mt. Thielson (pronounced "Teal-sun")

Another Idaho Trip!

2009-07-21T19:32:00.001-07:00

I had another opportunity to spend a few days with the grandchildren. Sadly, Molly couldn't go because she had to work. Here are a couple of videos: the first is River enjoying his bubble machine, with Felicity & Dad helping; the second is Tovia walking full steam ahead. She's inside their new house- you can see her walk out of the beautiful blue kitchen and continue into the dining room/living room with the newly finished wood floors.

Homeschool Opportunities in Grants Pass

2009-07-13T00:35:00.000-07:00

There are several exciting opportunities happening around Grants Pass in the way of Homeschool support. One, Covered Bridge Academy, a local Christian Homeschool Cooperative, which was launched last fall, is offering four more classes this fall. Their goals are to Develop Christian Character, Pursue Academic Excellence and Enjoy Delightful Collaboration. Classes are being offered once a week by homeschool parents, primarily Dads, to augment subjects being taught at home.

Another opportunity is Classical Conversations, which is a national Christian organization that equips parents and students with the classical tools of learning needed to discover the order and beauty of God's creation. This fall will be the beginning of a Grants Pass CC Community. They also will meet once a week where parents, with their children, will be mentored by a trained tutor.

Both of these groups see the parents as the central teachers of their children, and often parents need assistance in this awesome responsibility. That's why these two groups are being promoted to the Grants Pass Homeschool Community. As a Christian community we have opportunities to show the love of Christ to one another and learn about God's world together. In the process may we be a witness to our City for our Lord Jesus Christ.

A story

2009-07-06T22:21:00.000-07:00

When was the last time you read the Bible as a story? I don't know about you but when I read the Bible I think of theology and how much knowledge I can gain from it. It's not very often that I think of it as a story. There is a big difference and it should grab our attention. A lot of Christians like sitting down with a theology book and learning new things and becoming familiar with new Ideas (and those are very good things!) but I believe there is a danger of reading too much theology and not enough story. When was the last time you sat down with a good fiction book? A fiction book that was filled with enjoyable, good, and wholesome story in it? Those fiction books are like small mirrors or copycats of the stories of the Bible.

The Bible is not primarily a theology book that we simply go to to learn something new. That is only part of it. The Bible is a huge book of stories. Take the first story. There was nothing but God. Now God is creating! Now there is a world! It just keeps building and building and it keeps your attention as a wonderful story. A lot of the time the theology is easy to see and get, but it is the story that we miss or don't understand. I believe we can become better equipped to read the Bible when we read good fiction. Not only does it train us to read the Bible better but this also helps us learn about our own world and our own life. Something might happen to you during the day such a seeing a friend. Later, you could read that same event in the book that you are reading. Good stories are the ones that truly and accurately reflect life.

Reading the Bible as a story is important. This is an area I need to work on. What about you? Do you like fiction books? Maybe you aught to go read one right now. It will definitely help you read the Bible better.

Me, Homeschool My Children?!

2009-07-05T18:25:00.000-07:00

Thirty years ago, if someone would have said that in the future I would homeschool my children, I would have looked at them like they were crazy. At that time my husband and I were thoroughly steeped in the mindset of the public school system, which we attended into our college years. But the Lord, who is always at work, changed our thinking. He reminded us, as young parents, of the awesome responsibility we had to raise our children for Him, which meant taking every opportunity to show our children how to fear the Lord and obey His commands. We realized that if we sent our children off to school then many occasions would be missed to do just that. Homeschooling our children was the answer. What I didn't realize was how much God would teach me.

There have been times when I have wondered if I was doing enough for my children, especially when I look at the curriculum catalogs and all those wonderful books cry out saying, "your children need these, buy me!" I think about the times I don't have a clue what I am doing- the failed Science experiments- "Mom, what's it supposed to do?"... or having to look up the answers in the book again-"I should know that answer!"... also sitting on the nice comfy couch after lunch and falling asleep while reading books for wide-awake eyes- "Mom, wake up!" How humbling! Why in the world would I homeschool?! I am not trained to do this! Yes, you are! If you are a child of the King He is in the process of teaching you and He can use you to teach your children! Oh, that's right! I'm thankful for the people God has brought into my life to model for me or recommend good books. Also they have been models of Christ's love to my children. That's the beauty of the Church! Have I done enough in teaching my children? Most assuredly not, but God has promised to be a God to my husband and me and also to our children. Graciously, He takes our imperfect attempts at teaching and makes them better, of which I am very thankful!

The Lord is my patient, merciful heavenly Father teaching me and molding me. He uses my children to do His work. As much as I like to say that I teach my children, the reverse is certain—they definitely teach me. Notably, the Scriptures say that I must become like a child to enter the kingdom of heaven. What better way to learn this fundamental truth than by spending time with the children God has given me? It has been a joy to learn, or relearn, many truths about God’s world with my children and I know there is even more learning ahead of me. I am thankful for the Lord’s leading us and His sanctifying work along the way. Although home schooling might not be suitable for every family, I can say, after 23 years, it has been a tremendous blessing for me.

VBS is this Week!

2009-06-20T07:46:00.000-07:00

Our Vacation Bible School starts on Monday. We are using the curriculum from Answers in Genesis. With the theme being space, we will be exploring the heavens and all that God has made and learning about the authority of the Bible. The Living Faith Puppeteers will be doing some songs too! It is always an exciting time for children and adults alike! We pray many children will come and join us.

IDAHO PICTURES

2009-06-12T00:20:00.000-07:00

Toby & Jenny's new house!

5 year old River!

Tovia loved Aunt Molly!

Felicity tells Uncle Jeremy how old she is.

Felicity smiles for the camera, while Tovia looks on.

Coming soon...

2009-06-02T10:21:00.000-07:00

We'll have some news and updated pictures of the grandkids (nieces & nephew) after our trip to Idaho. It should be a fun time celebrating River's 5th birthday and helping Toby & Jenny with their new BLUE house.

Poll results

2009-06-01T16:17:00.001-07:00

Alright, so we have at least four people wanting more family posts. I think my Aunts and cousins are a little biased. :) That's okay! More family it is. Stay tuned!

Has it really been that long?!

2009-05-28T16:22:00.000-07:00

22 years ago today Andy was born! The day he decided to make his appearance was very much appreciated, since he was 10 days late! He didn't quite make it to Aunt Molly's birthday, but that was ok with me. At 9 pounds 5 ounces, I was ready to have him out! Having 3 older brothers to play war and other games, he's always loved some challenging competition and he's always been good at everything. I remember a time when Andy was about 3 or 4 yrs old and he would honestly whip me good in the game of Concentration- where the cards are face down and you turn over 2 at a time and try to get a pair. He could remember where all the cards were and I had to guess! So to this day if I beat Andy in a game I am so thrilled because he doesn't give up easy. I know that this kind of determination in competition is carried over in other areas of his life, to his advantage, and may he never forget that his family is cheering him all the way.

"How about a game of cards?!!"

The Poll

2009-05-24T21:58:00.000-07:00

Make sure to vote on the poll to let us know what you would like us to write about next! If you would like us to write about something else not on the poll then please leave a comment to cast your "vote". Thanks for reading our blog!

The blessing of brothers

2009-05-21T13:27:00.001-07:00

A question I often get asked is "How can you live with all those brothers of yours?" I've learned to just smile and expect this question after I first let people know that I am the only girl of the family. What is interesting is that this comes from women and girls and not guys. I will meet guys who have grown up with only sisters and no brothers, but I rarely meet girls who have grown up with only boys in their life. I want to say that girls who have no brothers are missing a very fun and amazing experience. However, if God has put you in a family with no brothers, then that is the family that is best for you. I have come to see that my family is the best one for me, but of course not for everyone else. That being said, brothers are a great blessing to us girls in many ways.

First off laughter abounds. I have learned to laugh at myself through my brothers. Boys have no trouble in pointing out your faults and showing how silly you are. It's amazing how ignorant you can be of how many foolish things you do that you don't even realize. Well, with brothers around they make sure that you remember the silly things that you have done. In addition to laughing at myself, I can laugh with my brothers because they are just so much fun! "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones" (Proverbs 17:22). So yes, brothers are fun to laugh with.

Second we girls get to practice on our brothers. I've gotten a lot of practice mothering my brothers (poor guys :D). Another thing that will come with practice is just getting to know how guys think and act. Through my brothers I have learned a lot about boys in general. A last practical thing that I have gotten to practice on my brothers is my cooking. Boys like to eat and they also have no trouble giving you advice on how you can make your cooking better so that it will taste good! So, practicing on your brothers can be fun and helpful to all involved.

Last we have things in common. So to you girls who have brothers that have been reading this, get rid of the idea that your brothers are a burden and annoying because they are different! I have gotten frustrated with my brothers because we are different, but that is normal. You should not focus on your differences, but rather turn those differences into learning about each other. Even if it doesn't seem like you have anything in common with your brothers, you probably do. In our family, a lot of us love to read! That is something that we all enjoy and we are able to talk about or read different books aloud with one another.

In conclusion I want to encourage those girls with brothers to look at the blessings of having brothers and not focus on the fundamental differences between girls and boys. Use the time you have your brothers in the same home for fun and learning and not for frustration and annoyance. God has placed you in your family because it is the one that is best for you and no one else. Learn to see it for the blessing that it is and you will enjoy every minute of your time with your family.

GET EXERCISING!

2009-05-13T09:51:00.000-07:00

Here it is!

Encourage your friends and family

to join with you.

Form a team!

It's time to get in shape!

BLESSED MOTHERHOOD

2009-05-09T12:49:00.000-07:00

We women are blessed with the privilege of being mothers for the glory of God. It is accomplished through the God-given sphere of the marriage of one man to one woman. Our mission is to give ourselves away for our family, so that they are able to worship the heavenly Father. When the mundane duties of doing the dishes, keeping the laundry going, picking up toys one more time, or perhaps the filthy challenges of changing another dirty diaper and cleaning up vomit in the middle of the night cloud our minds, we must remember what great influence we have over this generation and for many generations to come. Keeping this eternal, futuristic perspective in mind, makes those ill-favored duties of the home fade away. Through the Lord's intervention, we have the high calling of giving our children the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control and, as James says below, making them "ornaments" in society. Since the Lord of all the universe has made us women and has given us this awesome task, we can't help but give thanks and worship Him!

"The Bible gives [woman] her place of majesty and dignity in the domestic circle- the heart of her husband and the heart of her family. It is the female supremacy of that domain where love, tenderness, refinement, thought, and feeling preside. It is the privilege of making her husband happy and honored, and her sons and daughters the ornaments of human society. it is the sphere of piety, prudence, diligence in the domestic station, and a holy and devout life. It is the sphere that was occupied by Hannah, the mother of Samuel; by Elizabeth, the mother of John; by Eunice, the mother of Timothy; and by Mary, the mother of Jesus; It is the respect and esteem of mankind. It is the silent, unobserved, unobtrusive influence by which she accomplishes more for her race than many whose names occupy a broad space on the page of history." A Woman's Mission by John Angell James

Respect for rulers

2009-05-04T16:51:00.000-07:00

I've been reading about this subject in By this Standard by Greg Bahnsen. He has a lot of great words to say. To summarize, Rulers are to be respected because they were given their authority by God Himself. Yet our rulers are under obligation to keep the law of God as well, for they are our example. We are also obligated to not stand for injustice when clearly a ruler is not following the law of God. All of these points are prevalent to us today. Another important thing to remember is prayer. Our rulers and those in authority need our prayer, for they have been given a great privilege and awesome responsibility by our great God. We must remember to give them the respect they rightly deserve which includes pointing out the errors they make when they make wrong decisions which are contrary to the law of God. I pray that this will be more practiced and we will be better equipped to follow the law of our God in this aspect in these days.

The Persecuted Church

2009-04-25T08:37:00.000-07:00

I have been reading the book Tortured For Christ, by Pastor Richard Wurmbrand, and have been made more aware of those suffering for the sake of following Christ. We may not be persecuted openly here in America, but we can certainly be in prayer for those who are. Here are two women who need our prayers (as of April 3, 2009).

Iran- Two Iranian Women Arrested and Held in "Notorious" Prison

On March 5, Marzieh Amirizadeh Esmaeilabad and Maryam Rustampoor were arrested by Iranian security forces and labeled "anti-government activists," according to Farsi Christian News Network (FCNN). Thirty year-old Marzieh and 27-year-old Maryam are being held at Evin Prison, which is notorious for treating women badly. "Both women are allowed just a one minute telephone call everyday to their immediate families. Both are unwell and in need of urgent medical attention," FCNN reported.

During their last call on March 28, Mazieh said that she was suffering from an infection and high fever. She said, "I am dying." Marzieh and Maryam's apartment was searched and their belongings were confiscated. "Their only crime is that they are committed Christians who follow the teachings of Jesus," FCNN added. " They are being unfairly labeled as 'anti government activists' because of the hostility of the government towards practicing Christians." The women have reportedly been interrogated numerous times and were held in three different police detention centers before being sent to Evin Prison. FCNN reported an exorbitant bail amount of US$ 400,000 has been set even though Marzieh and Maryam's families have been told on numerous occasions that a judge is not available to discuss the case.

Marzieh and Maryam's arrest is the latest incident highlighting increased government intimidation of Christians in Iran. Believers are subjected to surveillance, arrests, imprisonment, and sometimes torture. The Voice of the Martyrs encourages you to pray for the immediate release of Marzieh and Maryam. Ask God to heal, encourage and protect them. Pray they will continue to stand for Christ during this difficult time.

Kids' Carnival Report

2009-04-21T23:09:00.000-07:00

Saturday went well! There was a good crowd of children and helpers. It looked like everyone was having fun. The puppeteers did two performances; the first one was well attended since the kids were waiting to eat their lunch after the puppets. It was a beautiful day so many activities were outside as well. What a blessing for all!

Carnival For Special Needs Children

2009-04-16T11:57:00.000-07:00

This Saturday Joni & Friends of Southern Oregon is hosting the annual luncheon for mothers of children with special needs. Mothers will be treated to an elegantly served lunch, an inspirational program, and a gift basket overflowing with goodies and gifts, while the children will be treated to a fun carnival packed full of games, activities, food, and puppets. The Living Faith Puppeteers, of Faith Presbyterian Church, will be ministering the gospel to the children through their puppets. Please pray for a good day for all, and that many would look to the the Lord who sees and knows the challenges that we all face. He is the One who gives lasting hope!

Happy Easter!

2009-04-11T14:38:00.000-07:00

Now after the Sabbath, as the first day of the week began to dawn, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary came to see the tomb. And behold, there was a great earth quake; for an angel of the Lord descended from heaven, and came and rolled back the stone from the door, and sat on it. His countenance was like lightning, and his clothing as white as snow. And the guards shook for fear of him, and became like dead men. But the angel answered and said to the women, "Do not be afraid, for I know that you seek Jesus who was crucified. He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay. And go quickly and tell His disciples that He is risen from the dead, and indeed He is going before you into Galilee; there you will see Him. Behold, I have told you." So they went out quickly from the tomb with fear and great joy, and ran to bring His disciples word. Matthew 28:1-8

Do you ever wonder why God chose women to find out first about the resurrection? We might be tempted to believe that it's because women are superior to men, or women somehow have special privileges with God. But with other scriptures in view, this cannot be the reason.

This is what John Calvin says in his commentary on Matthew:
"He began with the women, and not only presented himself to be seen by them, but even gave them a commission to announce the gospel to the apostles, so as to become their instructors. This was intended, first, to chastise the indifference of the apostles, who were like persons half-dead with fear, while the women ran with alacrity to the sepulcher, and likewise obtained no ordinary reward. For though their design to anoint Christ, as if Ire were still dead, was not free from blame, still he forgave their weakness, and bestowed on them distinguished honor, by taking away from men the apostolic office, and committing it to them for a short time. In this manner also he exhibited an instance of what Paul tells us, that he chooses those things which are foolish and weak in the world to abase the loftiness of the flesh. And never shall we be duly prepared to learn this article of our faith in any other manner than by laying aside all pride, and submitting to receive the testimony of the women. Not that our faith ought to be confined within such narrow limits, but because the Lord, in order to make trial of our faith, determines that we shall become fools, before he admits us to a more ample knowledge of his mysteries."

Pride and Prejudice

2009-03-27T12:11:00.001-07:00

The way I got hooked on Austen was through Pride and Prejudice. My sister-in-law had been telling us all about it and encouraging me to read it until I finally decided to try it and see what all the fuss was about. :) Needless to say I got hooked!

Pride and Prejudice is the story of the Bennet sisters. The story opens on the exciting news that a new bachelor is in town and Mrs. Bennet is "thinking of his marrying one of them [the sisters]." Unfortunately things do not go quite according to Mrs. Bennet's plan, at first.

The said bachelor is a Mr. Bingley who brings with him his two sisters, brother-in-law, and a friend named Mr. Darcy. My first thought of Darcy was that he was a creep and a villain, but soon my opinion was changed. I won't say how, you'll have to read this story for yourself! We are at first only interested in Jane Bennet (the oldest sister) and her prospects for a husband but gradually the story shifts to Elizabeth Bennet and her prospects.

The main character is Elizabeth Bennet and we see the actions of others through her eyes, and only perceive what is happening by what Elizabeth knows. She believes herself capable of understanding and interpreting people and events and if she doesn't, then she just attempts to laugh off her mistakes for "Follies and nonsense , whims and inconsistencies , do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can."

Another character I have to mention is Mr. Collins. He is the prime example in this book of Austen's witty style. Collins is a clergymen and the Bennet girls' cousin, and as such "I feel it my duty to promote and establish the blessing of peace in all families within the reach of my influence; and on these grounds I flatter myself that my present overtures of good will are highly commendable, and that the circumstance of my being in the entail of Longbourn estate will be kindly overlooked on your side, and not lead you to reject the offered olive branch." As it can be seen, Collins is full of himself which makes it all the more entertaining when he receives the talking to that he deserves.

The fun comes in conversation between characters. It shows how wrong some people can be when they are holding onto their pride, or are prejudiced. In the end we get to laugh right along with Elizabeth and not only at others, but at herself as well.

Today is a Day of Celebration

2009-03-23T09:46:00.000-07:00

Our granddaughter/niece, Tovia Ann, is one years old today! We are in awe as we think back to a year ago when she was born premature and was in the NICU for 2 months. We thank the Lord for His care and her growth over this last year. She is a walking (crawling) miracle! Her life will always declare that our God is good and gracious! We also remember her sister, Anastacia Ruth, who died, quite probably, so that Tovia could live. She is a picture of true frienship and love. It will be a joyous reunion when we join her in our heavenly home! We have a great God who hears our cries for help and He comes to the rescue!

"Make a joyful shout to the Lord, all you lands! Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing. Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture. Enter into His gates with thanksgving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations." Psam 100

Get Hooked on Austen: Emma

2009-03-19T22:58:00.000-07:00

As the story opens in the Woodhouse parlor, we read of sorrow mixed with joy as Emma, a young lady almost 21 yrs old, tries to console her father. Miss Taylor, Emma’s governess, has recently married and Mr. Woodhouse laments that it is a dreadful event. Emma, though she will miss her governess and best friend, comforts her father with the thought that they will still see her quite often. Her father, not liking change, cannot be consoled because “Miss Taylor” is now “Mrs. Weston.” Skillfully interweaving many characters into her novels, Jane Austen keeps the reader engaged. Emma is no exception.

Copious characters, in Emma, are promptly placed so the reader must be keenly aware to keep them all straight. I have to admit that I needed a “cheat sheet” to help me when I first read Emma. I was at first confused because “Emma” was sometimes called by her first name, and at other times by her last name, “Miss Woodhouse.” This was done with some of the other people too. It helped me to write down characters as they were added and I kept the list in the book so I could refer to it. Consequently, toward the middle of the narrative I no longer needed my cheat sheet. So keep that in mind, if you are easily confused like me.

At the beginning of the story, the “handsome” Emma is self assured, claiming that she is the one who is responsible for Miss Taylor and Mr. Weston meeting and encouraging the commitment. Having this accomplishment in mind, she states that other couples might need her help in matchmaking also. Fervently, Mr. Knightley, a close family friend, warns her against interfering and her father adamantly counsels her that matches “are silly things, and break up one’s family circle grievously.” With Austen’s wit and sometimes humor, the reader is drawn into the various struggles in which Emma finds herself. At the novel’s conclusion, she has flourished into a wiser more mature woman.

One of my favorite characters is Emma’s father. Although he is a friendly, hospitable man, he has a propensity of fretting about a variety of things such as: drafts in the house, the food people eat, or the weather. Emma, having a bright, happy personality, adores her dear papa and respectfully tries to cheer him when he starts to worry. I can picture Mr. Woodhouse sitting in an overstuffed chair with a blanket over his spindly legs exclaiming, “…But surely, Mr. Churchill, nobody would think of opening the windows at Randalls. Nobody could be so imprudent! I never heard of such a thing. Dancing with open windows! I am sure neither your father nor Mrs. Weston would suffer it.” I couldn’t help but smile as I read Mr. Woodhouse’s concerns.

The reader will certainly learn some valuable lessons from Emma. In Peter Leithart’s book, Miniatures & Morals he states, “Perhaps the most Christian novel Austen wrote, Emma is concerned with the relation of charity and truth; it is about ‘speaking the truth in love,’ or more precisely, about truth-speaking as the path to love.” Remarkably, one noble character, no matter how difficult, does speak the truth in love; while in contrast, the society all around is habitually trying to play its part, which is often a lie. I highly recommend Emma. There is so much to take in and enjoy. Read it and get hooked on Austen!

Jane Austen: Basics

2009-03-14T12:13:00.000-07:00

We have not been doing much Jane Austen blogging, so I am going to try to do some more of that. I found out this past summer that some members of my extended family may not know who Jane Austen is and probably have not read any of her books (shocking! :) So, this post is for anyone who wants to learn more about Jane Austen and her books.

Who was Jane Austen? Jane Austen was a novelist who lived from 1775-1817. She wrote 6 major novels which were published, and three unfinished novels, along with several other works. Jane grew up in a large family of 6 brothers and 1 sister. She never married and died at the age of 41.

What about the novels? The novels of Jane Austen include: Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, Northanger Abbey, Emma, Persuasion, and Mansfield Park. The most popular is probably Pride and Prejudice, which has been made into several film adaptations.

Are there books on the novels or life of Jane Austen? Yes! The one that I have read and recommend is: Miniatures and Morals by Peter Leithart. His new book will be coming out this month called Writer of Fancy: The Playful Piety of Jane Austen.

So those are some basics on Jane Austen. I think we will give you a synopsis of each of the novels in the days ahead. Hope you enjoyed reading these facts!

Another Movie

2009-03-06T15:58:00.000-08:00

Some good friends of ours were able to be a part of a movie last summer (and one of them was the lead actress!). It's called COME WHAT MAY, made mostly by students from a new Christian film company, Advent Film Group. The movie is about purity, the sanctity of life, and the importance of doing what's right...come what may.

This movie is being released to DVD nationwide on March 17th by Provident Films, the same company that distributed FACING THE GIANTS and FIREPROOF.

You can watch the trailer here and see a review of the movie here.

I would encourage all of you to buy a copy of this movie when it is released on March 17th. It has a great message!

God's Law is relevant

2009-03-06T15:26:00.000-08:00

"Over against the autonomous ethical philosophies of men, where good and evil are defined by sinful speculation, the Christian ethic gains its character and direction from the revealed word of God, a revelation which harmonizes with the general revelation made of God's standards through the created order and man's conscience."

By This Standard
by: Greg Bahnsen

The Next Generation

2009-02-28T09:58:00.000-08:00

Why would we want to remember our history? Especially if holds bad or painful memories? That is a huge question but shouldn't be taken lightly. We have a responsibility to learn about our history so that we will learn from it. Last night our small group watched a movie called The league of grateful Sons put out by vision forum. It was a very educational film and its main message was that we should be learning about our history, so that we will not be doomed to repeat it.

This is so true. My generation needs to be willing to be taught by our parents and grandparents so that we will be able to make wiser decisions. Think about what a difference it would make if we would start to listen to our parents and ask them for counsel. Too often I think we are tempted to just assume we know enough to make our own choices. We should never jerk away from counsel and it is time for this next generation to rise up and learn from their parents and grandparents so that we will be better prepared to face the future.

Our History

2009-02-24T19:47:00.000-08:00

Yesterday passed so fast and that can happen a lot, but do you know what the significance of yesterday was? Yesterday marked something that happened in our history. To learn more go here. I hope that we will remember our history and learn from it for our future.

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths."
-Proverbs 3:5-6

Must See Movie

2009-02-23T23:30:00.000-08:00

My daughter and sons saw this movie when it came out in the theaters and they came home saying it was good. I just saw it a few weeks ago after Molly bought the DVD, and I agree that it is good. In fact I recommend that everyone should see it. Kirk Cameron does a great job as the husband, as well as the other actresses and actors. It has a good story line and gives hope for broken marriages or gives suggestions for keeping healthy marriages strong. Go rent it or borrow it from a friend; it is worth it! Check out the trailer:
http://www.fireproofthemovie.com/

Why Worry?!

2009-02-18T23:00:00.000-08:00

The God of the Bible is not weak; He is strong. He is all-mighty. Nothing happens without His permission or apart from His purposes- even evil. Nothing distrubs or puzzles Him. His purposes are always accomplished. Therefore those who know Him rightly act with boldness, assured that God is with them to accomplish His own desirable purposes in their lives. James Boice

The counsel of the Lord stands forever, the plans of His heart to all generations. Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, the people He has chosen as His own inheritance. Psalm 33:11-12

God reigns over the nations; God sits on His holy throne. The princes of the people have gathered together, the people of the God of Abraham. For the shields of the earth belong to God; He is greatly exalted. Psalm 47:8-9

The Present

2009-02-12T11:41:00.000-08:00

How many hours do you spend thinking of the future? Last night I was reading The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis and it brought up an interesting point about our thoughts of the future.

"He (God) therefore, I believe, wants them to attend chiefly to two things, to eternity itself, and to that point of time which they call the present. For the present is the point at which time touches eternity. Of the present moment, and of it only, humans have an experience analogous to the experience which... in it alone freedom and actuality are offered them. He would therefore have them continually concerned either with eternity (which means being concerned with Him) or with the Present-either meditating on their eternal union with, or separation from, Him, or else obey the present voice of conscience, bearing the present cross, receiving the present grace, giving thanks for the present pleasure."

Lewis goes on to qualify that we should be concerned with the future, in as much as planning for the next day or next week goes, but our focus, our aim is in the present. I had never thought of it that way before and it hit home. Too often I worry about the future, and do not concern myself or worry about what I am doing right now! I think we need to adjust our thinking to bring ourselves to proper perspective. Right now, I am to be doing the work that God has given me. Right now, I am to be acting on His Word. Steven Curtis Chapman expresses these thoughts very well in his song Miracle of the Moment: (go here if you would like to listen to it).

It's time for letting go
All of our "if onlies"
Cause we don't have a time machine
And even if we did
Would we really want to use it
Would we really want to go change everything

Cause we are who and where and what we are for now
And this is the only moment we can do anything about

So breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There's a wonder in the here and now
It's right there in front of you
And I don't want you to miss the miracle of the moment

There's only One who knows
What's really out there waiting
And all the moments yet to be
And all we need to know
Is He's out there waiting
To Him the future's history

And He has given us a treasure called right now
And this is the only moment we can do anything about

So breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There's a wonder in the here and now
It's right there in front of you
And I don't want you to miss the miracle of the moment

And if it brings you tears
Then taste them as they fall
Let them soften your heart

And if it brings you laughter
Then throw your head back
And let it go
Let it go, yeah
You gotta let it go

And listen to your heartbeat

And breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There's a wonder in the here and now
It's right there in front of you
And I don't want you to miss the miracle of the moment

And breathe it in and breathe it out
And listen to your heartbeat
There's a wonder in the here and now (here and now)
It's right there in front of you
And I don't want you to miss the miracle
Of the moment

No, we cannot control the future, but God does. We don't need to worry about the future because we can trust that God is in control of it all. So, plan and prepare for the future, but don't live in it because God has called you to live in the present and be acting in the present.

God is Faithful

2009-02-04T22:31:00.001-08:00

Today I have been looking at pictures from the last year of Church events, our family, and just any pictures we have from this last year. I am again going to attempt to make a slideshow of pictures of all of our church's events from this past year. It has been fun to look over some of these shots and see all the great things that God has done in this past year.

For example, we had a mystery dinner for all of the younger couples in our church this past November. It has been fun to go through those photos and remember how enjoyable the evening was.

We also have some pictures from a couple of our fellowship meals from the past year. We have one every month, so they all blend together, but the thing that stuck out here was how much our church just likes to spend time together. That is why we have this time of eating (some great food!) and talking, because we want to keep our relationships strong.

All of this has reminded me how much our church has grown this past year. This may not be in terms of numbers of people, but in terms of spiritual growth. We have learned much, and continue to learn, together.

"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!" -Psalm 133:1

The Glory of God

2009-01-31T22:43:00.000-08:00

"Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth! Tell me, if you have understanding, or who stretched the line on it? On what were it's bases sunk? Or who laid its cornerstone, when the morning stars sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy?" -Job 38:4-7

In the verse above, God is talking. This verse encompasses something that I was reminded of this week. I watched a video with some friends and it started out talking about our galaxy and the wonders that surround our planet. When you look at the stars, do you see the handiwork of God, or just some small points in the night sky? I often think of the stars as so small compared to our big planet. How wrong I have been. There are many stars that are much bigger than earth. The largest star that we have discovered is called Canis Majoris and it is huge! Compared to that star, we are tiny. Can you believe that God would stoop to live among us? This is just a tip of the iceberg though, because God is intimately involved with each one of us.

We may know all of this, but do we understand what this means? It means that we are but a vapor, yet God loves us; our planet is a spec in the universe, but God knows me. How do I know all of this? My answer is Romans 8:38-39:

"For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

So, how can we apply this to our trials and hardships? Because we can see with our own eyes how great our God is, we can have confidence that God will care for us; and because God created all with just a breath, we can know that He is able and will take care of us because He takes such an interest in us and loved us so much that He sent His only son to die for us. Those who don't believe this will find no comfort and those who refuse this will not have true peace.

Give praise to God for He is great!

Psalm of the day

2009-01-30T12:42:00.000-08:00

Psalm 47

O clap your hands, all peoples;
Shout to God with the voice of joy.
For the LORD Most High is to be feared,
A great King over all the earth.
He subdues peoples under us
And nations under our feet.
He chooses our inheritance for us,
The glory of Jacob whom He loves. Selah.
God has ascended with a shout,
The LORD, with the sound of a trumpet.
Sing praises to God, sing praises;
Sing praises to our King, sing praises.
For God is the King of all the earth;
Sing praises with a skillful psalm.
God reigns over the nations,
God sits on His holy throne.
The princes of the people have assembled themselves as the people of the God of Abraham,
For the shields of the earth belong to God;
He is highly exalted.

A New Week

2009-01-26T17:01:00.000-08:00

It is sometimes difficult to start a new week. Thoughts of the last week still linger and this can be especially true during the hard weeks. This last week we put our dog down. As hard of a decision as it was, it was the right one and God gave us wisdom to know when the right time would be. It's been a few days, so things are getting better, but there will still be hard times.

But all of that was last week! Yesterday morning I heard a sermon on not being childish but childlike. I think it is very childish to keep looking back at the week before. Yes, when the hard weeks come you should mourn, weep when it's time, and cry when there is sorrow, but don't dwell there. Our Savior was crucified on a dark, black Friday; but on the first day of a new week, He rose! Hallelujah! That is our hope. That is what we should emulate. Be sorrowful, but don't let it last. It can't and mustn't last.

Let your laughter soar! Shout out your joy!
So, how will you begin your week? Will you begin it with backward-looking and tears, or will you let your tears be dried and give yourself over to the joy and hope that we have been freely given?

Rejoice, because a new week is here!

SAVE BABIES! STOP ABORTION!

2009-01-26T09:28:00.000-08:00

This was our local Walk for Life.

For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise You, (O Lord) for I am fearfully and wonderfully made, marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Your eyes saw my substance being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them. Psalm 139:13-16

For the Unborn

2009-01-13T21:24:00.000-08:00

This coming Sunday we are attending our annual "March for Life". I want to encourage each and every one of you to find out if there is one in your area. If there is, then you should definitely go! This is a very important way that we show others what we believe and one very small way that we can show what God thinks of abortion. I am looking forward to marching and to attending the rally afterwards as well. I pray that you will think about this seriously, because it is a very important issue that we cannot just let sit.

On the Other Side of the World

2009-01-05T16:12:00.000-08:00

My guys checking out the historical sights

Charles Schulz Museum- Santa Rosa, Ca

2009-01-02T16:46:00.001-08:00

We loved going to this museum last week! Charlie Brown welcomed us! Since Schulz played and enjoyed the game of hockey, it was a big theme here. There is an ice rink next to the museum. It was all decorated for Christmas, complete with a Christmas tree in the center of the ice.

We learned that Schulz loved Beethoven and we were able to listen to many music clips and some history of Beethoven. We learned that Schulz actually wrote parts of Beethoven's music right into his Peanuts comic strips. You see Schroeder playing some above, with Molly listening attentively.

Of course we had to see Snoopy and Woodstock!
The whole gang was there!
It was complete with the Red Baron!

Prayer

2008-12-16T17:20:00.000-08:00

I'm finishing up my research paper for my "Christian Doctrine 1" class and it has been a really neat thing for me to research. Can you guess the topic? Yep, it's prayer in view of God's Sovereignty. Here are some things that I bring out:

1. Prayer is primarily for the glory of God and we pray because He commands us to.
2. Prayer brings us into deeper relationship with God and is reflected in an obedient life.
3. By faith and from the Bible we can know that our prayers will be answered.
4. God uses our prayers as a means of accomplishing His will.

Thanks be to God that we can pray and know that He hears us.

Humility before God

2008-12-06T17:11:00.001-08:00

"The spirit of our age is essentially that of boasting and glorifying in the flesh. The achievements of man, his development and progress, his greatness and self-sufficiency, are the shrine at which the world worships today. But the truth of God's sovereignty, with all its corollaries, removes every ground for human boasting and instills the spirit of humility in its stead."
-A.W. Pink, The Sovereignty of God

More A.W. Pink

2008-12-04T16:19:00.000-08:00

I have to share some more from The Sovereignty of God! I am on the last chapter and I have enjoyed a lot of it. What a great God we serve!

"Another example, equally striking, is seen in the life of Job. As is well known, Job was one that feared God eschewed evil. If ever there was one who might reasonably expect Divine providence to smile upon him-we speak as a man-it was Job. Yet, how fared it with him? For a time, the lines fell unto him in pleasant places. The Lord filled his quiver by giving him seven sons and three daughters. He prospered him in his temporal affairs until he owned great possessions. But of a sudden, the sun of life was hidden behind dark clouds. In a single day Job lost not only his flocks and herds, but his sons and daughters as well. News arrived that his cattle had been carried off by robbers, and his children slain by a cyclone. And how did he receive this intelligence? "The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away." He bowed to the sovereign will of Jehovah. He traced his afflictions back to their First cause. He looked behind the Sabeans who had stolen his cattle, and beyond the winds that had destroyed his children, and saw the hand of God. But not only did Job recognise God's sovereignty, he rejoiced in it, too. To the words, "The Lord gave, the Lord hath taken away," he added, "Blessed be the name of the Lord" (Job 1:21). Again we say, sweet submission! Sublime resignation! A recognition of God's sovereignty causes us to hold our every plan in abeyance to God's will. "

Now remember, I'm only giving you bits and pieces. To put these together, you need to read this book for yourself! I hope you will if you haven't already. There are some great things to be found there. God Bless!

Another Birthday!

2008-12-01T17:13:00.000-08:00

My "baby" is sixteen years old today! He is 6 ft. 3 in. and wears size 15 shoe! As his oldest brother said one time, "there's never a dull moment with Jeremy around!" I remember God's protection over Jeremy when he was about 3 yrs old and fell into the swimming pool while trying to retrieve a toy, which he had thrown over the fence. He proceeded to climb the fence and leaned too far out and fell in. Of course I was in the kitchen and didn't see this and had no idea what had happened until there was a knock at the kitchen door. When I opened it there stood a sopping wet Jeremy, with a guilty look on his face. To this day I don't remember if I spanked him or hugged him (I scolded myself for not watching this mischievous boy), but I know I was thankful that he didn't drown. When Jeremy was born we knew he was specially marked by God as we observed three cowlicks (I call them swirls) on his head and two webbed toes. Just today he was practicing his speech and looking much older. That's my baby who has turned into a young man!

Happy Birthday Jeremy!

Family For Thanksgiving Part 2

2008-11-27T23:57:00.001-08:00

Felicity gives sister Tovia a flower

Uncle Casey explains a football play to River

Tovia Ann- 8 months

The Sumpter Family

Family For Thanksgiving

2008-11-27T15:12:00.000-08:00

While I'm waiting for the turkey to get done I thought I'd post a few pictures. We are having a wonderful time with everyone! We will hate to see them go tomorrow. :(

But we will have pictures to remember this fun time. I am thankful for the Lord's many blessings this year and always! He is so good to us all!

Ladies Retreat

2008-11-16T23:40:00.001-08:00

A dozen ladies got together this past Thursday evening through Saturday at the Oregon coast. It was a wonderful time of good discussions, singing, prayer, walks, food and relaxation. The Lord gave us great weather! We look forward to doing it again next year!

The Bible, God's Sovereignty, and the election

2008-11-06T12:19:00.000-08:00

Last time I gave you a little taste of what my research paper, for my college class, was about. Well, this time I'm going to go a little farther and share a part of it with you dealing with the character of God.

To understand the inspiration of the Bible we need to understand the character of God. In God's words, J.I. Packer says "the core of the Bible is its story of God speaking to men" (p. 19). God is speaking to us through His word. Obviously, God is bigger and greater than we are, which points out God’s holiness. Later Packer goes on to say that "This is the deepest reason why the Biblical writings are 'holy' … because the Holy God is their author" (God's Words, p. 34). Because God is holy, He is incapable of inspiring falsehood which shows He is most reliable. Unfortunately, not everyone today has a high enough view of God's holiness to follow or take seriously His commands. God can be trusted above and beyond men. As the Bible says, "If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater; for the witness of God is this, that He has borne witness concerning His Son" (1 John 5: 9). Knowledge of the character of God is important because it shows us that anything from God is reliable and accurate.

Now, yesterday I finished my paper and submitted my work for my first class. I was really happy and excited, and decided to start reading the introduction of my first book for my next class. This was "The Sovereignty of God" by A.W. Pink. From what I had already been studying and from what I read last night I began to see how I could apply these things today. First here is what Pink had to say:

"Who is regulating the affairs on this earth today-God or the Devil? What saith the scriptures? Ere we consider the direct reply to this query, let it be said that, the scriptures predicted just what we now see and hear.... Our is peculiarly an age of irreverence, and as the consequence, the the spirit of lawlessness, which brooks no restraint and which is desirous of casting off everything which interferes with the free course of self-will, is rapidly engulfing the earth like some giant tidal wave.... What saith the scriptures? If we believe their plain and positive declarations, no room is left uncertainty. They affirm, again and again, that God is on the throne of the universe; that the sceptre is in His hands; that He is directing all things "after the counsel of His own will".... It is in view of what we have briefly referred to above, that we say, Present-day conditions call loudly for a new examination and new presentation of God's omnipotence, God's sufficiency, God's sovereignty. From every pulpit in the land it needs to be thundered forth that God still lives, that God still observes, that God still reigns... Without a doubt a world crises is at hand, and everywhere men are alarmed. But God is not! He is never taken by surprise...'All things' are subject to His immediate control: 'all things' are moving in accord with His eternal purpose, and therefore, 'all things' are "working together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose."

I could go on. :-) But I won't. What comes to your mind, reading what Pink said? How could you apply it to today? I believe one of the best ways is through the election which just took place. Let that sink in. Some of us were very happy about how the election went and some of us were very disappointed. With both sides of this issue, though, this fact can be applied. God is still God. He is still watching you and knows the events of this world better than we ourselves do. After this was brought to my mind, I just sat back and felt an immense relief! I don't need to worry about what changes will be coming, God will take care of them and of me. We also can't place our trust in anyone but God. I'm sorry, but no mere man is going to save our country and restore our version of peace. I hope this fact has been impressed upon you. We are not in control of events, but God is, and we can rely on Him to accomplish what is best for our lives.

2008-11-05T22:55:00.000-08:00

Transforming Broken Bits

Recently an article in the newspaper covered the story of a man from Spain who does trencadis art. He was here in Grants Pass and did a beautiful mural at our athletic club. Trencadis is similar to mosaic art, but with one difference; mosaics are made from perfectly shaped square tiles and trencadis uses irregularly shaped tiles. If you take a closer glance at this art it looks like a bunch of broken tiles glued together, but when you step back you don't see the individual broken bits anymore, just a gorgeous picture! The artist has a knack for placing each tile in the right place so that when he is done it has become something wonderful.

Just like trencadis, God the Father is taking broken sinful people of various backgrounds and personalities and working with them individually and corporately to build something beautiful. God the Son, being the "chief cornerstone," is the perfect foundation and God the Spirit is the glue that holds us all together. If we look at each other up close we can see the imperfections. As we live and worship together we often rub one another the wrong way. It can be difficult. Sometimes the Lord needs to break off areas of our lives that don't fit with the picture. Painful as it is, He holds us in His hands, all the while, never letting us go. But if we could step back far enough we might get a glimpse of the lovely scene that God is forming.

Let us be thankful for our brothers and sisters in Christ, rough edges and all. After all, they have to live with us! The Artist is at work and we mustn't doubt that He is doing something beautiful. Some day it will all become clear as we enter that heavenly rest, free of broken bits. Maybe we'll be able to look back and see what the Master Builder was doing throughout all of history. We'll see His compassion, mercy, patience, discipline, sovereignty, goodness and faithfulness as He diligently made His masterpiece-magnum opus-out of His Church. To God be all the glory!

October in Oregon

2008-10-26T23:07:00.000-07:00

Taking off of my sister's blog of "October in Tennessee", I couldn't resist giving a sight of autumn in our front yard. I took this picture four days ago and now the leaves are turning more brown and falling off. Isn't the Lord so good to give us this spectacular season of change and color!

Inspiration

2008-10-23T10:53:00.000-07:00

For my Biblical interpretation class I'm writing a research paper on the inspiration of scripture. I've found it very challenging and refreshing to review facts about the Bible that I've known. One thing I did yesterday was to look up the words inspiration in websters dictionary. Here is what I found:

Inspiration, Noun
1. Arousal of the mind to special unusual activity or creativity.

2. A product of your creative thinking and work; "he had little respect for the inspirations of other artists"; "after years of work his brainchild was a tangible reality".

3. A sudden intuition as part of solving a problem.

4. Arousing to a particular emotion or action.

5. The act of inhaling.

I found this a very interesting definition in light of the fact that 2 Timothy 3:16 says "All Scripture is God-breathed..." (NIV). What an amazing fact that we have the very words of God.

I'll let you know more as I finish my research and the paper. :)

Gift Suggestion

2008-10-17T13:45:00.000-07:00

Just to say up front, this is not a paid advertisement! But since we are gathered in the parlor to chat about many things, I thought I would bring up a gift that is worth the money. Often while shopping I have stopped to drool over the digital picture frames, as I walked by the electronics section. Little did I know that my daughter was taking note, so she and her brothers bought me one for my birthday. It has been wonderful! You plug it into your computer (or plug in a memory card) and download pictures to the frame. Then you plug it into the wall, flip a switch and a slide show of all your pictures passes before your happy eyes (or you can adjust it to keep on one picture). There is also a video file so you can play video clips, a calendar with the picture slide show on the side and a music file. I have my picture frame on the kitchen counter, and no matter where my family members are I can see them and smile. It helps to ease the longing to be with each one of them and also reminds me of the Lord's kindness and faithfulness to our family.

His Life For Mine

2008-10-11T23:01:00.000-07:00

You have trusted Him as your dying Savior; now trust Him as your living Savior. Just as much as He came to deliver you from future punishment did He also come to deliver you from present bondage. Just as truly as He came to bear your stripes for you has He come to live your life for you. Hannah Whitall Smith

I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
Galatians 2:20

A Must See...

2008-10-01T23:58:00.000-07:00

I would highly recommend reading this post- "Abortion: The Strong Define the Rights of the Weak", but especially watch, at the bottom, the two part video clip of Gianna Jessen, who is an abortion survivor. It is a powerful talk and it will inspire you!

http://solofemininity.blogs.com/posts/